Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Gay Marriage: Why I don’t support it

If any of my gay friends read the title of this I hope it aggravated you just a bit because you and they should be mad right now. Not at me but at such a stupid f’n argument it should not even be up for debate. The reason I don’t support it however, is not what you’d believe. Where I contest the idea is that our Government has the right to declare “marriage” and what it is. Marriage is a term with religious roots and should remain as such. All the government should be concerned with is Civil Unions between any number of Americans. 1 and 1, 1 and 3, whatever... they should see us as a number. Not a man, not a woman, not black nor white, just an American.

What makes my argument differ from apparently everyone else is I don’t think we as Americans need to ask our government who we can or cannot love. They should be concerned with if we would like to financially arrange ourselves to another person(s) and that’s that. If you’re a man who loves another man, whether you were born that way or choose that way, who am I to be concerned with that? Who is our government to mandate actions to any one of us to trample on our individual decisions in such a regard?

These are people that we elect and we have to ask them if we can visit a spouse in the hospital? We argue over words but forget the principle. Our Government should back out of our business and let individual institutions declare marriages separate from the “technical civil unions” the government should be concerned with. If one church practices a system where marriage is strictly between a man and a woman people should be able to choose to go there to get their weddings done, and marriages declared. If gay people can’t that sucks but because we’re resourceful Americans, a market is created for a church that would. In fact because this is America and ultimately we do whatever we want anyway, those churches would pop up all over the place .

If the Government only saw our financial arrangements as civil unions, whether you’re straight or gay then what is the problem? The government gets what they want (a tracking of who we share our finances with so they can tax us to near starvation) and we get what we want, a chance to love who we want, when we want for as long as we want.

The biggest problem I see when watching protests like what just happened within the Beltway this week was 10’s of thousands of people are willing to protest in this country “asking” to be treated like “regular” Americans. The more we argue how we’re different Americans the more we forget that we’re all just one group and none of us should be treated differently under any circumstance. Stop asking the government for permission and start reworking your argument.

It ultimately could be a policy put into effect where no one is hurt whether by their own morals or choices, their genetics or anything else. If the Government gets out of the “marriage” business and starts calling it what it is, another way to tax… this argument wouldn’t even exist. It wouldn’t cure homophobia but it gets the government out of trying to control who and what we are no matter who we are as long as we’re Americans.

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Cash for Clunkers, Success or Flunkers?

Working in the car industry I just got a small taste of how the Government can jump in, manipulate the masses and still define their own action as a success.

Recently the Government came up with the idea of CARS. The Car Allowance Rebate System would help stimulate the economy and get older, crappy, gas guzzling cars off the road. Dubbed "Cash for Clunkers", the program was approved by our government to run for 3 months or for the first 250,000 customers that took advantage of the offer to trade in their old car for a guaranteed 3500-4500 rebate. This of course after the consumer paid their sales tax on the pre rebate number of. This program, with it’s potential 3 month lifespan, came with a budget approved by our representatives of 1 billion dollars.

What was supposed to start on July 1st of this year didn’t go into effect until July 24th. What started on July 24th was the grossest display of greed I’ve seen in a long time. What could have been 3 months of this greed was surely not going to be the case though. The budgeted 1 Billion dollars ran dry in four. Not months, but days. Four days of the Government getting into the Car Sales Industry they went bankrupt. Zero dollars left but they may pass another 2 Billion into the kitty so the “Clunker” program can get to that November 1st mark originally “budgeted” for. My math calculates that 2 Billion to potentially last another 8 days if the first wave of wasted money was a sign but who am I right?

”Was this program a success?” is what I’ve been asking myself. When I immediately say “yes” I know I only speak for myself about myself. The fact is, it was quite successful for me. The cynical part of me thinks that I made an awful lot of my own money back though. Since the government has always taken close to 30% of mine, them creating a system that directly affected my paycheck so positively is me getting them back.

But again, was this a success? My immediate answer was yes, but the bigger picture tells me it was just another system proving itself positive of how big a scale the government can screw up on.

For starters, the fact is the braniacs that passed this program budgeted our tax dollars to last 3 months and it only lasted 4 days. That is unacceptable by any and all standards. If that isn’t a big enough stick in the side, I look at the people that took advantage of this program. Now I don’t know the official numbers but I know what I saw. Most of the people that purchased new cars traded in their second or third cars, their kids cars, or cars they just had for rainy days. These cars that were on the road were not on the road often, they were really just rusting backups in peoples stable. Many of the people that traded in these cars did so because they were frugal or more accurately cheap. It wasn’t because they didn’t have the money. Of the 250,000 new cars sold I’d be really curious to see how many bank loans were written on them. The people I saw and heard about were paying cash. Tens of thousands of dollars that people are sitting on because they haven’t had a need to make payments on that antique 6 year old car they had laying around. They had salaries well above most Americans but now they were in the market because they found a way to screw a government that literally went out and asked for it.

The government bought cars that were worth $1- 500 bucks on a good day and paid 4500 dollars for the privilege. They then turned turned around and crushed them. Forgetting the fact that there is an ENTIRE viable used car, salvage, repair, and restoration industry that could have used the vehicles for their own inventories for less fortunate people to buy up and use. It’s not the green approach but sometimes people have so little that shouldn’t even be a concern of theirs right now. What about countries around the world that could use vehicles and how our throw aways could have helped them? How about the technology that we now have that could have converted the old power trains in these cars to be more efficient. Perhaps they could have been retooled by professionals and reused for the better good. Really, did anyone think anything out on this? No ideas in this at all but 1 Billion dollars (with another 2 Billion on deck) for a program where our government spends our money to save 750,000 people in this country a few thousand bucks on a car they probably didn’t need. If 750,000 people doesn’t really bother you, think about this… We tax payers just helped every citizen of Fort Worth, Texas to buy a car.

Did this program make any substantial change to the economy? Car sales people are living large but are you?

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Universal Healthcare makes me sick…

Turn on the television and you’re bound to see a debate concerning universal healthcare in the US and whether we should have it. In my opinion if you even have to ask this question you need to put down your drink, put away the bong and spit the LSD back out of your mouth that is making you out of your fucking mind.

Now seriously speaking beyond the fact that on every level it could never work effectively in this country lets go over a few points on how bad this could be.

The first point would have to be the big brother and big government factor. We spend our entire lives carrying the burden of the “man” on our backs, bitch about things like the Patriot Act that encroach on our rights, complain that the government interferes too much already and now we want to hand over the reigns of our healthcare to them? Is it because they’ve already been in the healthcare business for a better part of the last century and failed miserably at it? The Veteran’s hospitals are shameful, the welfare system is the biggest failure our government could and have ever offered. We still even treat the Native Americans through their programs like shit. How about government run clinics, been to one of those lately?

Another point is taking the capitalism out of the health industry destroys the quality of care we get. Hate it all you want but the profits these drug companies make goes towards the production and research behind new techniques and medicines. Much of it is wasted to experiments that were over expensive and didn’t work but some of its findings made the medicine that saves our lives. The companies that play this game play it with our money and against each other all striving to give us the very best products ensuring we always buy more. We the consumer fund them and in turn they give us a tangible product that we have a choice to buy or not buy. But the government controlling the healthcare system doesn’t work that way. The government would force us to choose one of three packages like they always do and that’s that. They would then have the leverage on the big drug companies to limit the monies going back to them. The government would have the ability to drum up fear in an American public with smoke screens like the “Swine Flu” and make companies produce more medicines to treat just that. When the government is involved in making those kinds of decisions the drug companies lose their ambition to be creative in treating many other issues. Companies lose their ability to control their own production and even worse their research. Obviously with this retarded amount of money the current Administration is spending the government will have a “great” grant and loan program that we'll pay more for and the drug companies can take advantage of. Once those companies have latched on the government can have one more control over them and their finances. If you don’t believe that to be true ask GM how they lost their CEO and they’re still going to file for bankruptcy protection.

Not to mention the government controlling the healthcare system stifles physicians and surgeons and significantly reduces their compensation. Again check your local VA hospital and see what that’s looking like. With government run healthcare you’ll not see any pioneers as you may see today. With their fancy offices and ridiculously expensive cutting edge equipment they are on the forefront of medicine at a level we see and feel as the capitalist consumer. Everyone seems to forget the government grows and limits us more and more each time it does. The government will lowball ALL doctors every chance they get until ultimately they take the incentive away to even be in the profession in the first place. A buzz topic always seems to be “the best Physicians are from foreign countries so they must have a great health system”. What is always forgotten when that is said is, “but all those best doctors come and work here”. They’re the best in their field and they’ve come to the United States for what? Could it be our charming personalities? No, it’s the money. We the consumers, with our Baskin and Robbins assortment of health insurance policies, pay good money for what we’re getting done. They love us for it and we love them for fixing us… done.

In England where the healthcare system is run through the government someone gravely ill could potentially wait weeks for aid while the bureaucracy finds everyway to rear it’s ugly red taped head. Here in the States you can walk into a hospital or immediate care center with no insurance card and a splinter. You’ll leave with a bill but with every exam under the sun. There are many horrible instances we have in the hospitals too where people aren’t getting the care they deserve, unfortunately they’re usually veterans and welfare recipients. Odd huh? We the free American and the professional consumer do what we want when we want, when the government gets involved we get more deadlines and more orders coupled with more restrictions and more privacy invasion.

Oh but there is the argument of those without health insurance and how it’s their civil right to be taken care of. EXCUSE YOU!? Most of the people in this country who don’t have insurance are either illegal or crack heads. I’m supposed to feel bad they’re not being paid for in a health system that struggles in part because of them and the programs they come attached to? Fuck them and the horse they rode in on. My family got here off a boat and they stood on the damned line to get in. If you jump that line and get sick now that you’re here that’s karma and tough shit. If you went through life and never had a job, preferred drugs over food and now you are homeless with no health care… fuck you too. There is no reason that I should feel obligated to help you through my taxes. You should have stepped up and did the right thing. Fortunately for fuck-ups like you, the illegals, and God forbid those people that actually really need assistance, the mentally handicapped and abandoned have all kinds of charity and privately funded aid to help you in getting the care you need, a roof over your head and some clothes on your back. They’ll feed you, educate you and start teaching you that in America you have a 95% chance of having affordable health insurance if you meet one requirement… get a job. If you’re the other 5% working without any you have an assortment of programs to help. If you’re this supposed 23% of “American’s” without health insurance you’re generally beyond any help I’m willing to give but still you have many private foundations that will aid you in anything you need. However, your health should not be someone else’s financial burden. The most you should get from us is a buck on the street corner in a tin can before you get up and get what’s on the silver platter this country already affords every one of it’s citizens.

There are far too many reasons on why universal healthcare in America is such a ridiculous idea but here is just a start that has already tired me out. The government tangles every web it weaves and truly my fear is to now say we’d like them to control our health.

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Follow Up: to Science and who is in the right? How to start arguing for our causes...

The way to argue for a cause and get any kind of real change is going to take a new course of action.

Jim, my only blogger follower, you recently asked me "What a conservative do" and the question confused me. What I pride myself in is not to conform to the idea that I need to do what a party or philosophy would do but to what I would do. The conservative movement is the movement that most closely follows my ideals but I'm not quite sure they would get to some ends the same way. Perhaps they would (especially the RLC) but again I don't base my ideals on what they would do rather I do what I do and they just happen to agree much of time.

An example to a societal conundrum of current day is Gay Marriage. If asked what a conservative would do I couldn't give a shit but what I would do is limit the government's role in marriage. While everyone questions whether it should be legal or not, I question whether or not we should even ask that question. Who makes the government so mighty and powerful that they can tell us who we can and can not love for the entirety of our lives?

This should be at most the decision of the sanctioning body that instituted the marriage. If Church A doesn't allow gay marriage because they say God frowns upon it; OK. There will always be a Church B that says "Church A is out of their minds, God loves everyone and come get married here". If Nutley doesn't allow it, you know Belleville will because one group ideology in a place where people had to live together prevailed. A towns ability to issue a marriage shouldn't be more powerful than any other approved institution. We get the choice of where we want to marry and who we want to marry and get more of those choices. The only role the Government has is to set laws that One human made arrangements through a certified body IE Church, Town Hall, Cruise Ship, Little Vegas Wedding Chapel or whatever to FINANCIALLY tie the knot for life to another Human and or Humans.

Here are a slew of answers all tied into one. Could gay people marry? Of course. Polygamists, sure why not? You love each other, you have the bond and you have every right to be financially tied to that person(s) for the remainder of your life if that is your so choosing. The government has no right to intervene when it comes to whether a significant other can visit an ailing mate, if they're basing it on whether individually the socially sanctioned group to which they belong to doesn't agree. If my local, state or federal politician's religious or party affiliation doesn't agree on whom should be married it should not be allowed to be a factor on how they vote to benefit "us".


Why I write this is simple. While the socially liberal debate is to beg the government to see their own way and allow them to marry whomever they choose and socially staunch religious people beg the Government to see theirs instead, we all need to put our Government in check and remind them they work for us. We shouldn't be begging for anything. Religious zealots would not be hurt because the institution they belong to would still not issue marriages outside their core beliefs. Gay people would not be hurt because they would find many institutions that believe the same as they do and would issue the marriages. And the people we hire to employ our government can not make laws that govern on their own individual beliefs to supersede what we the people want to believe. As long as an institution validates themselves as one that can issue a marriage by the government's "should be" standard of human to human(s) their is nothing else to argue. We are protected in our freedom of choice, freedom to practice religion and freedom from an overbearing government.


if none of that makes sense forgive me... I'm heavily medicated with this bug and get dizzy to even try to proofread. :P

Is Science Ever "Right"?

There has been a slow but steady move in our country to blame and ridicule Christians for their theological beliefs. Being raised an Atheist and believing as such for my entire life I have my own set of beliefs that ultimately could be proven to be very wrong. Obviously, my belief is so strong that I don't leave myself on the fence but this recent influx in Christian slander is really leaving me sitting uneasy. The world is clearly a crazy place when a non believer feels the need to step up and defend the people that do believe.

Christians are being denounced in many places of the most left leaning parts of our nation and it amazes me that the ammunition of those nay sayers could be used as the same argument against their own progressive beliefs. "Because Science proves it". When all is said and done, the final straw that breaks the proverbial cow's back is that any non believer proves their stance by quoting the "scripture" of Science books. Christians are then rebutted into their losing corners as their proof is only in their hearts in the form of the morals they were taught in the bible. They can say that life is proof of God's existence but again, a non believer will show the science of how that life was created through the Earth's evolution.

Anyone that has debated me knows they never get to the core debate because I ask too many questions before hand. Perhaps we should all ask these questions because frankly I'm not sure Science is always right.

Christians believe that Homosexuality is a sin but what do Scientists believe? A Scientist essentially agree wouldn't they? They would say that humans can be born this way because of some malfunction in their chromosome structure or some miscalculation in their DNA. They would say that these people are not destined to survive the evolution cycle for the simple reason that they're mentally not designed to procreate.

Now me as an Atheist can jump all over Christians and remind them that people are people. That homosexuals have every right as I do to live in a world happy and carefree. They're contributions to the world thus far have been immeasurable and forcing their misery through restrictions and ill will is immoral and just plain wrong. Science however doesn't support me on this.

This same argument could be used for many principles and ideologies that face our nation today in the "questioning" arena. Skin color, body shapes, ethnicities, intelligence, health etc. Hell, Science even says people with Dimples are "deformed". So what gives? In my most humble of opinions I have to say "Science isn't always right". And surely "Science is never really Right"

My morals tell me this and nothing else. Some peoples morals are based on their religion and why is that such a bad thing? This is what they believe and if it gives them solace so be it. As long as what they preach doesn't physically bring harm to another it's not my place to question them or make fun of them. Other peoples morals are founded like mine, passed down from generation to generation and tweaked to be appropriate for the times and how they chose to live. My grandfather's generation had us being respectful to everyone but everyone was generally a the heterosexual WASP or heterosexual western European. Throughout the years morals have changed and we get to my generation. The someone I am is one who accepts anyone and everyone and only have a limit drawn to say don't hurt me in your process of liberty. My morals tell me that I don't give a crap if a woman marries a horse and adopts a guppy, if it doesn't hurt me directly it's none of my business. My morals also tell me not to judge her for what she believes or how her body is physically and chemically composed. Christians would call this person a sinner, but Science freaks would call this preposterous but would hope that natural selection would rid people like her from the planet.


Science proves a lot of things but using it as ammunition against the hate on Christianity is flat out wrong. I may not believe in all of what the Bible preaches nor do I believe it for historical content but I don't necessarily believe in Science either. Both of them assault my morals in many instances and I'd rather just go by my gut when it comes to judging people and their beliefs. We all need to approach our arguments differently and start asking the right questions before trying to come to an agreeable answer.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

For you...

--- Your flower the Orquidea


--- Your Chocolate from Godiva...


--- a hug on the way...


--- Some love with a few more flowers for good measure


--- The warmth of the Sun

--- and a long slow kiss...


:)

Thursday, March 26, 2009

NBC Pop Culture Statistics…

So I’ve been watching NBC’s morning shows for the past few weeks and getting reacquainted with Matt, Merrideth, Al and Ann and when I’m home during my day offs maybe even a little Hoda and Kathy Lee. That’s right, I admitted it… now what? Well, what I’ve learned is nothing spectacular but some of what I’ve been told I’ve been consumed with leaving me a good mix of skeptical and disgusted. Pop culture changes for each generation but here are just two of the stats that have boggled my mind and some of which I can continue to hardly believe.

The worst example I heard was… 1 out of every 3 relationships can be labeled as abusive. The Today Show never clarified what constitutes abusive but never strayed from the implied physical but still… what the hell? 1 out of every 3? If that stat is even remotely accurate society needs a swift kick in the ass or to be locked up in cells with missing keys.

Another, much less important statistic was 70% of men think it’s sexy for a woman to pay their way or to pay entirely when dining out. Which ever man thinks that’s sexy is a serious tool. Obviously women are just as capable but what happened to being a gentleman? Sure it’s decedent to be treated once in a while but a habit of this is BS and simply an example of men just being cheap. This is an ongoing gripe on many levels so I wont exhaust myself with bitterness on the subject but 70%? Are we friggin kidding?

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

First Donation of the Year…

And the winner/recipient will be Sarah Palin. Though some of you may read this with complete distain for the woman that’s fine; but know that she is also a fellow American that extremist groups are taking advantage of financially and judicially tying up our courts and an acting governor.

Because people didn’t like her as a candidate she has a slew of lawsuits being thrown at her over the most erroneous of things and it’s despicable. There is a lawsuit seeking punitive damages for her not declaring a holiday quick enough to appease its supporters. Another seeks retribution for one of her aids using a state computer to reply on someone’s blog during the election season? How about a lawsuit alleging that she has pandered to a business for wearing her husband’s snow gear at a race he participates in because the sponsor “Arctic Cat” is visible?

Here is a woman that did nothing but to have an opinion and run for an office in government. Many have picked her to death and she’s gone back to Alaska keeping to her states needs and probably trying to forget the half of a welcoming she received when she was introduced to us.

With all of these frivolous lawsuits going thru the system and wasting tax payer’s money she’s left with a debt forecasted to be at least 600k dollars. That’s a lot of money for 6 cases already thrown out, 3 more pending and countless others just lining up. From all accounts I can’t see one instance where she’s asked for the State’s aid or dipped from any taxpayer pool of money to cover any of her legal defense fees.

There is talk that she’ll start up a fund to pay for this and I for one will be donating what I can. It doesn’t take her policies or whether I agree with them or not, it takes the fact that she’s obviously a good person just trying to live the dream like the rest of us. She endured an onslaught never seen before led by the Press and IMHO she’s taken enough for me to not even try to help.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Masters of Puppets

This is a quick entry I’m writing because for you to invest in the content of what is said you’ll need to dedicate the next two hours of your life to hear what some like myself have been trying to say.

If you’re into a good conspiracy theory, enjoy theatrically dooming narration and are like me with having almost no trust in the current machine we call our Government you should watch this. Through video and commentary they’ve stayed completely unbiased and this movie should be at least reviewed if you can find the time.

Speak of the New World Order over 10 years ago made me stop registering as a Democrat and then again 5 years ago with leaving the Republicans. Now as an Independent I still know it’s all a bunch of BS and movies like this are needed to remind us all what is right in front of us. Recently aligning myself with the RLC, a Republican based Libertarian sect I hope they are the most truthful in what they say but still you just never know when it comes to a politician.

Take the time to watch, even if you don’t believe it… it’s worth the listen.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAaQNACwaLw

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Money Well Spent?

It looks like part of our governments new cherry in spending is coming in the form of 600 Million bucks to buy a fleet of new fuel efficient/hybrid vehicles.

Since the TARP plan and its ridiculous amounts of money we had to pour into the American industry after our government all but bankrupted them in the first place… “we as a people” better be buying American cars.

The friends I speak to keep bringing up the name Prius and describing a new America where government employees drive them but I sincerely hope not. Those fine folks over at Toyota have already significantly delayed the opening of a Prius plant in Mississippi and has opted for instead, the idea to build in China and import them into the American market.

My hope is that our government will spend that money on technology like that of what GM and Chrysler share in the full size hybrid segment. The government loves their big SUV’s and Chevy’s Tahoe, GMC’s Yukon and Cadillac’s Escalade all come in a Hybrid setup. With Dodge’s Durango and Chrysler’s Aspen using the same setup these are great quality viable options. Since most of the spending won’t start until 2010-2011, ideally much of that money can be spent on Chevrolet’s Volt and Saturn’s version of it if they decide to make it. Take about a fuel efficient state commuter car. 40 miles door to door solely using electricity.

Here is a chance for the money that we put into our economy to make a real return and truly help us and help the environment. For anyone reading that feels I may be wrong because you believe that the American manufacturer doesn’t make a good car you really need to go out and drive one. They’re far better than many give them credit for and in many instances they’re quite a bit better than their Japanese and even German counterparts for a fraction of the cost.

I work for GM and support their products but this isn’t a commercial. Our government has ramped itself up to pay all kinds of money for businesses in need. Many people think we should help these companies… I believe we should buy their product. With the 600 Million of new money about to be spent, let it be spent in wise places.